I think I found her…

As I searched for the right words to reflect my credo, my intentions, and my vision for the future, I stumbled upon a piece of writing by Steve De'lano Garcia. It stopped me in my tracks. His words pierced through the noise in my mind, resonating with me so deeply that I could feel them settle into my soul.

I was captivated. Tears began to fall—not just tears of sadness for the things I’ve had to let go of, but a rainbow of emotions; sadness of saying goodbye, excitement for saying hello, but most of all, hope for the future.

Hope for a future filled with purpose and meaning. Hope for the promise of growth, healing, and connection.

Steve’s writing felt like a mirror reflecting not just where I’ve been, but where I’m going—and maybe it can do the same for you. In his words, I hope you find a piece of yourself, too.

Much love,

Nichole xoxo

"A strong woman's energy? Oh, it’s a force of nature that either breathes life into you or leaves you quaking in your boots. When she walks into a room, it’s like the sun just decided to rise, and let’s be real: you either bask in that glow or you get scorched. She’s not here to play nice or cater to anyone's insecurities; she’s the storm that makes the weak scatter and the bold stand taller.

Her laughter is a battle cry, echoing with confidence that can shatter glass ceilings and ignite ambition in the hearts of those who dare to match her intensity. But if you’re too fragile to handle her brilliance, well, darling, that’s your problem, not hers. She doesn’t dim her light for anyone; she’s here to shine, and if you can’t keep up, you’ll find yourself lost in her shadow, wondering how you ever thought you could measure up.

A strong woman knows her worth—and it’s sky-high. She’s the kind of woman who walks into a room and instantly elevates the atmosphere, but don’t get it twisted: she’s not there to elevate you unless you’ve earned it. Her presence is intoxicating, demanding respect and attention, and if you can’t handle that, it’s best to step aside. She’s not here to babysit your ego or soothe your fears; she’s a trailblazer, a conqueror, and if you’re lucky enough to be in her orbit, you better be ready to rise to the occasion.

So, take note: her energy can inspire greatness or intimidate the hell out of you, and either way, she’s perfectly fine with it. She’s the wild card in a world of predictable routines, the game-changer who flips the script. So, are you ready to step up and match her fire, or are you going to sit back and watch as she continues to dominate the stage? Because make no mistake, she’s not waiting for anyone to catch up; she’s already on her way to greatness, leaving the timid in her wake.

She doesn’t just walk the walk; she struts with a swagger that turns heads and commands attention. The way she carries herself isn’t just confidence; it’s an aura that says, 'I know exactly who I am, and I refuse to apologize for it.' When she speaks, the room hangs on her every word, captivated or intimidated—there’s no in-between. She’s the woman who can dismantle your arguments with a single, well-placed glance, leaving you questioning everything you thought you knew about strength and allure.

Her ambition is relentless, a roaring engine that propels her forward while others sit idly by, content to let life happen to them. She’s not waiting for anyone to give her permission to take up space; she’s already carved her name in the universe, and she’s not about to let anyone erase it. If you’re smart, you’ll recognize that her energy is a rare gift—an invitation to rise, to evolve, to become something greater than yourself. But if you’re too weak to seize that opportunity, don’t be surprised when she leaves you behind, a mere afterthought in her rearview mirror.

And let’s be clear: she thrives on challenges. If you think you can intimidate her, think again. She eats doubt for breakfast and uses setbacks as fuel to propel herself even higher. When others falter, she stands tall, a beacon of resilience and audacity. She knows that the world is full of naysayers, but their whispers only amplify her roar. They can’t comprehend her fire, and frankly, she doesn’t care. She’s blazing her own trail, and if you can’t handle the heat, then get out of her kitchen.

So, whether you’re inspired or intimidated, know this: she’s a force to be reckoned with, and she won’t apologize for her strength. She’s here to disrupt the status quo, to challenge norms, and to remind everyone that a strong woman doesn’t just exist—she dominates. So, either step up and be a part of her incredible journey, or get left behind in the dust of her relentless pursuit of greatness. Because one way or another, she’s going to shine—and you can either be a part of that light or watch from the shadows, wishing you had the courage to join her.

In the end, remember this: a strong woman’s energy isn’t a mere flicker; it’s a blazing beacon that illuminates the path for those brave enough to follow. She’s the embodiment of resilience and passion, a reminder that true strength doesn’t just survive—it thrives, unapologetically and fiercely. So, if you find yourself in her orbit, don’t shy away; embrace the challenge, rise to the occasion, and let her fire ignite your own.

Because when you stand beside her, you’re not just witnessing greatness, you’re becoming part of it. And trust me, there’s nothing more powerful than a woman who knows her worth and isn’t afraid to claim it. So take a deep breath and step into the light; greatness awaits those who dare to shine."

-Steve De'lano Garcia